Aites guys,
i came across this site on yahoo and i find it rather interesting and useful.
I know everyone in a lovely relationship will definitely want to maintain their relationship as much as they can with that special someone.
I, too, am like that.
However guys, these are some of the signs to keep a look out for which is perhaps an indication that the status u have is going down the drain. & it is also a vital sign that u have to do something or regret letting the one u love most walk out of your life.
Here is sign #1 You stop relationship-building behaviors
-This is the point where u guys stop kissing each other goodbye or stop texting each other during the day. Instead of adding things to the relationship, you start to resent each other like two five-year-olds who stop sharing their crayons. This is a breakup point.
Sign #2 You don't understand each other anymore
- The fighting escalates to a place where you no longer feel like you're understood by your partner. Physical intimacy stops and communication stops. & u are at a point where u are trying to understand your other half, but it all seems just so impossible and frustrating. Now this is another break up point.
Sign #3 You start punishing each other (Not physically thou)
- Resentment builds and you get in your head too much. You are no longer about feelings, and you start punishing each other.
Sign #4 You fight less
- You actually fight less with your other half when heading towards the break up point. This is because u are in a way detaching yourself, physically and emotionally from your other half. & this is a sure sign that you are going to hit break up point.
And last but not least, sign #5 You've taken the time to think it through
- When you think you might have hit that breakup point, you must tell the person that you're disconnecting from them. You need to be honest and raw even thou u know it will hurt both u and your partner. If you don't think the relationship is going to work, or you know you've already disconnected based on how things have been going, then you might want to consider walking away for a week. When you're in the thick of things, they never seem to be able to work out.
Aites guys, i hope this article comes in handy to all readers and thus if your significant other is the one, then u know the steps to take to make sure u don't let him/her walk out of your life.
Cheers guys and all the best with u loved ones. =)
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