-.-" I know.. Tell me about it, and i thought i was never gonna make it to lesson at all!!
Thanks Karz for making sure i got to class today.. Even thou we were like really late =)
Anyways, i came across this article on yahoo.com and i find it really good and rather true..
It's called
" 10 Things U should never say to your Boyfriend" (PERIOD)
1) "My ex did the exact same thing!"
-Whether it's a desirable resemblance or a less desirable one, trust me, your boyfriend never wants to hear that he's anything like your ex. Like Ever!!
- You don’t want him to feel like you're always comparing the two of them, do you? Think about it: Do you really want him to imagine that he does other things just like your ex? Doubtful. Plus, he might think you're still hung up on your former flame.
2) Don't burden him with someone else’s secret!!
3) "When we're married/have kids..."
- Wait until you're sure you're on the same page regarding marriage, kids, and the future of your relationship before you start prophesizing. A gut feeling probably isn’t good enough.
4) "Do You Think She's Pretty?"
- When you ask a question like this, your boyfriend knows he can’t win.
If he says “yes,” you’ll probably get jealous and upset. You might even follow up with “Is she prettier than me?” Talk about a loaded question!
Of course, if he says “no” (and she clearly is pretty), you’ll accuse him of being a liar. You’ll wonder what else he’s lying about, even as you assure him you don’t mind if he says “yes.” Pfff…as if you’re that insecure!
5) "I'm fine" or "Never mind"
- Passive-aggressive behavior doesn't help anyone. First, you miss an opportunity to actually address what’s bothering you. You also bottle up your frustrations and create new problems. By the time you actually try to tackle what’s really bothering you, you’re both too upset about too many things to have a constructive discussion.
6) "I just let one go"
- you might want to wait till you're married to be disgusting
7) “I’ll try anything once!”
- Because unless you really, really, really mean it, don’t get his hopes up.
8) “Are you sure you're okay?"
- Sometimes we’re thrown off guard when our guy is uncharacteristically quiet. We’ll prod and probe, hoping to get to the bottom of their issue.
- Ask him what’s bothering him over and over again and the only honest answer will be “You.”
9) “I hate my thighs”
- If he didn’t find you attractive, he wouldn’t be with you in the first place. Period, end of story.
- Putting yourself down in front of him makes you look insecure, and just in case you didn’t know, men really hate that
And finally
10) "I hate your mom"
- If you love your man, you’ll trust his judgment.
- And whatever you do, don’t ever make him pick a side. If it’s between you and his mom, you’ll lose every time.
Found the article useful babes?? I know i did.. I hope that's good enough to help u along with your relationships yeah =)
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